Jil, I echo Truthsearcher's sentiments. I will take it a step further.
My personal experience with the public school system, both as a child and as an adult has shown me that people place an incredible amount of trust in these adults to educate their child. Trust is placed often in these teachers without any prior knowledge of who these people are.
As a child, I can tell you that I had two women who made no bones to scream at us daily, to the point where we were in fear of them. One who flipped over desks to humiliate the student into submission, and then a 5th grade teacher who was reprimanded for digging her nails into the neck of a student when he was talking out of turn. This was elementary school.
My husband had a 4th grd teacher who destroyed his self esteem, something even his 73 year old mother remembers.
A few years back my older daughter was going to a nearby school and within the first few months, slowly stopped wanting to go to school. To the point where she would scream hysterically if we passed the stinking exit. I made her go (Don't ask why it still haunts me) and on that day I finally made her go, her teacher wrestled her to the ground, tearing off her coat. Hannah was I believe 3 and a half. We took her to the doctor because she literally wouldn't leave the house to go anywhere without screaming. He thought she was autistic as well.
The point is this:
Yep your personal experience with homeschooling was negative. But I'm sure you realize now that not every homeschooling experience is negative.
I realize that not every teacher is an evil you know what. In fact Hannah has a great one now that we interact with almost daily and have grown to really trust her.
The thing is, I also know that in the schools teachers can get away with A Lot and A Lot of damage can be done to a kid's self esteem before they ever get to junior high. And once a teacher destroys that, what does a kid have left?
I am not trusting my kids self esteem to adults I don't know. I'm sure that there are great teachers and principals out there. However, I do know that teachers are often very very busy. And even if you get a "good" one, maintaining daily or at least regular communication with them and getting to know them is very difficult.
I am really really sorry your experience was so bad!!! I am really thankful you shared that with us because it is an excellent reminder of the responsibility that my husband and are undertaking.